Why do u think ppl hv problem with age .....

A lot of people may say that age is a state of mind, that a person is only as old as they feel.

It is possible to have a secure and loving relationship in which there is an age difference, if both people involved understand certain issues that may arise and they can work together to resolve them.

Age is most significant when it relates to maturity.

Whether you find yourself to be the younger or the older person in a relationship, take into account whether your maturity levels match.

This all depends on their life experiences, personal outlooks and goals.

Most importantly, if you and your partner feel you are right for each other, age will not matter.

When it comes to love, age is just a number.

Will Power

An old man lived alone in Minnesota. He wanted to spade his potato garden, but it was very hard work.
His only son, who would have helped him, was in prison. The old man wrote a letter to his son and mentioned his situation.

Dear Son,

I am feeling pretty bad because it looks like I won't be able to plant my potato garden this year.

I hate to miss doing the garden, because your mother always loved planting time. I'm just getting too old to be digging up a garden plot. If you were here, all my troubles would be over. I know you would dig the plot for me, if you weren't in prison.

Love,

Dad
.........

Shortly, the old man received this telegram:

“For Heaven's sake, Dad, don’t dig up the garden!! That's where I buried the GUNS!" At 4a.m.

The next morning,

A dozen FBI agents and local police officers showed up and dug up the entire garden without finding any guns.

Confused, the old man wrote another note to his son telling him what happened, and asked him what to do next

His son's reply was: "Go ahead and plant your potatoes, Dad. It's the best I could do for you from here."
********

- Moral of the Story

NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN THE WORLD ... IF YOU HAVE DECIDED TO DO SOMETHING DEEP FROM YOUR HEART, YOU CAN DO IT.

The Burned Biscuits- Can you eat them????

When I was a kid, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work. On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my mom and ask me how my day was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that biscuit and eat every bite!

When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits. And I'll never forget what he said: "Honey, I love burned biscuits."

Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides - a little burned biscuit never hurt anyone!"

You know, life is full of imperfect things.....and imperfect people. I'm not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and anniversaries just like everyone else.

What I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each other’s faults - and choosing to celebrate each other’s differences - is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.

We could extend this to any relationship. In fact, understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship!

"Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket - keep it in your own."

God Bless You..... Now, and Always....

So Please pass me a biscuit, and yes, the burned one will do just fine.!.!.!.!

Alone ...

Purity once had a name, And beauty once had a face.

Life once had a meaning, And once I was safe.

Once there was freedom, And once I could laugh.

Happiness once was alive, And once I had another half.

Once I shared her love, Once I was by her side,

Once I felt I fitted, So quickly that died.

Her grace so great, Her beauty so vast,

All I ever wanted, Was for it to last.

Fate maybe had another plan, But it all fell apart.

Now it's all died away, Happiness, joy, love; all memories.

Now I walk alone in this dark, dark world, With no light to guide my way.

Myth & Truth of Love in Distance ...

Just the other day … chatting with friends … out of no were Long Distance Relationships topic came out and a discussion went on … and the weightage was more given to “Long Distance Relationships don’t work out” …

So just thoughts were thinking over the weekend … Challenging and difficult, they may not be the words we want to hear, thou that best describe long distance relationships. However, not impossible. Many people choose to give a long distance relationship a try, with the constant curiosity if it was the right decision to make and if it even stands a chance. The truth is, a long distance relationship has just as much a chance of succeeding as any other relationship!!!

Long Distance Relationships share the same facts as an average relationship. It involves two people who share an interest in each other's lives, care for one another and have a love for each other that they hope will only continue to grow. On the other hand, a long distance relationship does have its differences as well. It takes away your ability to see each other on a frequent basis, not to mention that there would be major trust required. Being unable to spend time together in a physical presence makes it harder to hang on to, but does not spell out doom for your relationship.

Agreement of what your expectations are in the relationship and how much of a commitment you are willing to give and receive. If the two decide to be one, then it is clear that neither will be dating anyone else as long as romantic relationship exists. Being clear about what both want is extremely important, especially in a long distance relationship, in order to prevent future misunderstandings and mistakes. Don’t feel afraid to tell your partner what you really need and want from him or her, both deserve the chance to speak from heart and he or she deserves to know the truth and judge whether they can give it to you.

Trust is a major necessity if you wish to have your relationship from a distance. Without trust and honesty, the relationship is in for danger and unsuccessfulness, just as it would be any other relationship. By accepting the challenge of a long distance relationship, you also accept the fact that you will have to have the trust and faith that your partner will not be seeing anyone else as promised. Being suspicion and accusing will only grow doubts, insecurity and tension between the two and none of those three will help the relationship survive successfully.

Keeping each other informed of the friendships you have with other people and the events that take place in your personal life is a great way to keep your relationship alive and healthy; and continues to make your partner a part of your life. It is essential that you receive the same information from your partner as well give and take, so you both feel the same security and satisfaction that you both crave. Being creative with the way you keep in touch, such as calling, e-mailing, and whatever you can think of …

Planning reunions play a big part in keeping your relationship exciting, plus serve you the satisfaction of being able to see each other occasionally. It gives you the opportunity to catch up on each other's life in person. Setting a limit of how long you will be apart is a wise thing to do if you do not want to end up waiting forever. There will be a day when you and your partner will have to start planning a serious future.

With the right amount of effort and interest on both parts, a long distance relationship can survive the obstacles; it will frequently be challenged with. As long as you both refresh your memories of why you chose to do this in the first place, trust each other, inform one another of your personal lives, keep in touch, and visit, your relationship can turn out to be one of the most successful and happy relationships that ever existed. You both will be secure, happy and satisfied until the day comes when you will re-unite for good and build your wonderful future together.

To anyone out there who isn't sure....just go with what feels right. Don't rush anything especially in a very long distant relationship. Patience IS a virtue!

Communication Gap

A Man is driving in his car on a road ...

A woman is driving in her car on the same road, but in the opposite direction.

When they pass each other, the man opens his window and shouts to the woman: DONKEY!

The woman immediately responds: MONKEY!

Both continue their seperate ways, the woman being very satisfied with her quick and smart reaction.

And just as she reaches the first curve in the road ...

Moral:
"Women never really understand what men are trying to say to them."

Bill Gates after Death

Read what happened to bill after death

"Well, Bill," said God, "I'm really confused on this one. I'm not sure whether to send you to Heaven or Hell! After all, you helped society enormously by putting a computer in almost every home in the world and yet you created that ghastly Windows. I'm going to do something I've never done before. I'm going to let you decide where you want to go!"

Mr. Gates replied, "Well, thanks, Lord. What's the difference between

the two?"

God said, "You can take a peek at both places briefly if it will help you decide. Shall we look at Hell first?" "Sure!" said Bill. "Let's go!"

Bill was amazed! He saw a clean, white sandy beach with clear waters.

There were thousands of beautiful women running around, playing in the water, laughing and frolicking about.

The sun was shining and the temperature was just perfect!

Bill said, "This is great! If this is Hell, I can't wait to see Heaven!"

To which God replied, "Let's go!" and off they went. Bill saw puffy white clouds in a beautiful blue sky with angels drifting about playing harps and singing.

It was nice, but surely not as enticing as Hell. Mr. Gates thought for only a brief moment and rendered his decision.

"God, I do believe I would like to go to Hell."

"As you desire," said God.

Two weeks later, God decided to check up on the late billionaire to see how things were going. He found Bill shackled to a wall, screaming among the hot flames in a dark cave. He was being burned and tortured by demons.

"How ya doin', Bill?" asked God. Bill responded with anguish and despair.

"This is awful! This is not what I expected at all! What happened to the beach and the beautiful women playing in the water?"

"Oh, THAT!" said God. "That was the screen saver"

Time For A Laugh - A Haircut

A guy stuck his head into a barbershop and asked,

'How long before I can get a haircut?

The barber looked around the shop full of customers and said, 'About 2 hours. '

The guy left.

A few days later, the same guy stuck his head in the door and asked, How long before I can get a haircut?'
The barber looked around at the shop and said, 'About 3 hours.'
The guy left.

A week later, the same guy stuck his head in the shop and asked, 'How long before I can get a haircut?
The barber looked around the shop and said, 'About an hour and a half .'
The guy left.

The barber turned to his friend and said, 'Hey, Bob, do me a favor. Follow that guy and see where he goes. He keeps asking how long he has to wait for a haircut, but then he doesn't ever come back.'

A little while later, Bob returned to the shop, laughing hysterically.

The barber asked, 'So, where does that guy go when he leaves?'

Bob looked up, wiped the tears from his eyes and said,

'Your house' !!!!!!!

Celebrate your Uniqueness !!!

A plum once said, just because a banana lover came by, I converted myself into a banana. Unfortunately, his taste changed after a few months and so I became an orange. When he said I was bitter I became an apple, but he went in search of grapes. Yielding to the opinions of so many people, I have changed so many times that I no more know who I am. How I wish I had remained a plum and waited for a plum lover.

Just because a group of people do not accept you as you are, there is no necessity for you to strip yourself of your originality. You need to think good of yourself, for the world takes you at your own estimate. Never stop down in order to gain recognition. Never let go of your true self to win a relationship. In the long run, you will regret that you traded your greatest glory - your uniqueness, for momentary validation. Even Gandhi was not accepted by many people. The group that does not accept you the way you are, is not your world.

There is a world for each one of you, where you shall reign as king / queen by just being yourself. Find that world... in fact, that world will find you. What water can do, gasoline cannot and what copper can, gold cannot. The fragility of the ant enables it to move and the rigidity of the tree enables it to stay rooted. Everything and everybody has been designed with a proportion of uniqueness to serve a purpose that we can fulfill only by being our unique self. You as you alone can serve your purpose and I as I alone can serve my purpose. You are here to be you... just you.

There was a time in this world when a Krishna was required and he was sent; a time when a Christ was required and he was sent; a time when a Mahatma was required and he was sent; There came a time when you were required on this planet and hence you were sent. Let us be the best we can be. Don't miss yourself and let the world not miss you.

In the history of the universe, there has been nobody like you and to the infinite of time to come, there will be no one like you. Existence should have loved you so much that it broke the mould after making you, so that another of your kind will never get repeated. You are original. You are rare. You are unique. You are a wonder. You are a masterpiece... your Master's piece.

Do Celebrate your Uniqueness!!!

!Palms!!

Wen I hold da center of ur palms,
I know u r with me, so i am calm.
Wen our palms slid to be apart,
I feel ur touch in my every part.

On ur plams d pattern of lines,
Tell so much of stories through time.
Wen those palms runs on my neck for da hug,
It makes me feel Heaven.

People who have a problem with age! Why don't you think about this...

A lot of people may say that age is a state of mind, that a person is only as old as they feel.

It is possible to have a secure and loving relationship in which there is an age difference, if both people involved understand certain issues that may arise and they can work together to resolve them.

Age is most significant when it relates to maturity.

Whether you find yourself to be the younger or the older person in a relationship, take into account whether your maturity levels match.

This all depends on their life experiences, personal outlooks and goals.

Most importantly, if you and your partner feel you are right for each other, age will not matter.

When it comes to love, age is just a number.